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In When Parents Hurt, psychologist and parent Joshua Coleman, Ph.D., offers insight, empathy, and perspective to those who have lost the opportunity to be the parent they desperately wanted to be and who are mourning the loss of a harmonious relationship with their child. Through case examples and healing exercises, Dr. Coleman helps parents:

• Reduce anger, guilt, and shame
• Learn how temperament, the teen years, their own or a partner's mistakes, and divorce can strain the parent-child bond
• Come to terms with their own and their child's imperfections
• Develop strategies for rebuilding the relationship or move toward acceptance of what can't be changed

By helping parents recognize what they can do and let go of what they cannot, Dr. Coleman helps families develop more positive ways of healing themselves and relating to each other.

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“. . .desperately needed. . . a truly great book for parents, and a great book for therapists who work with families.”

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“A superb treatment...a unique and groundbreaking approach...an eyeopening read for anyone.”

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“A wise and helpful book.”

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“An especially healing, practical resource. . .for anyone exhausted by strained, hurtful relationships with their adolescent or grown child.”

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“An important book that can help parents heal.”

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“Coleman’s focus is on helping the parent cope and carry on...an engaging read despite the serious subject matter.”

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“Exceptionally perceptive.”

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“I LOVE this book. [It] is written from such a realistic and compassionate perspective that it is heart-warming.”

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“Joshua Coleman’s book is a gift, offering extraordinary wisdom coupled with practical advice.”

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“This is an incredibly insightful and sensitively written analysis of a difficult subject. . . .I have recommended it to many of my clients. . . I highly recommend it to all parents who hurt.”